May 7, 2017

  • Because Two People Said "I Do"

    I don't know how many times we've driven through the Lancaster countryside on our way to Grandpa and Grandma Johns' house, but I'm always impressed with the beauty and orderliness. Yesterday was no exception. Laundry was flying from Amish clotheslines and fields had been freshly plowed. Flower beds were carefully tended and sod farms were ready for harvest.

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    But one thing was different this time. Grandpa and Grandma weren't home. After Grandma's death almost six years ago, Grandpa lived alone in their home on Keneagy Hill until it became apparent that he wasn't able to live alone and moved into a nursing home.

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    The Johns family gathered for a family sale of Grandma and Grandpa's belongs. It wasn't uncommon for someone to bid on an item because of the memories that it held. More than one person went through a box and pulled out the most treasured items and left the rest sit for anyone who was interested. I didn't think I would buy anything, but found myself with a little pile around my feet.

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    Someone had set aside a box for the children to go through and many found treasures. Others were whispering in parents' ears about one item or another that had taken their fancy.

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    Grandpa's gun collection was sold in the middle of the sale and the bidding was spirited. Several of the children were quite interested in the bb pistol, but the family is full of hunters and the rifles seemed to be coveted items.

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    There was a lot of interest in Grandma's quilt collection as well. She had pieced some of them, at least one had been a gift, and others she had bought at benefit sales. There were even a couple of boxes full of patches for quilts that she had begun and never finished.

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    Our family was more than pleased to come home with one of Grandpa's guns and one of Grandma's quilts.

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    Grandpa and Grandma weren't there to say good-bye when we pulled out. Grandpa didn't say "come anytime" as we loaded the van, but the memories were there. We had spent a wonderful day together as an extended family all because two people said "I do".

Comments (2)

  • Thanks for writing this! It was a special but sad day. Glad you all could come, my kids enjoyed yours being there!!

  • Sad when times change and yet we are thankful they are safe from fear and pain.

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